You are unique, and if that is not fulfilled, then something has been lost” [Martha Graham].
Look at you standing out there with your individual style. Choosing your own ideas. Living a life that fits. Checking “none of the above” when the answers provided don’t suit you.
Some days you want to color with orange. Other days, purple. Some days you don’t want to color at all. You’re unique, unusual, rare. You’re extraordinary. You’re valuable!
But then there are days when you let the voices of small minds drown out your colors and the ideas of malcontents dilute your brilliance. When you grant others the freedom to mock your ideas, erase your creation, and minimize your mission.
It’s important to understand “there has never been anyone quite like you and there never will be. Consequently, you can contribute something . . . that nobody else can. There is power in your uniqueness — an inexplicable, unmeasurable power . . . a magic” [Gordon MacKenzie].
Each time you give someone permission to silence your voice and block your belief, a little piece of your magic floats away.
When you lower your guard and allow the status quo to become your daily standard, your ability to influence is diminished.
Don’t throw away your ideas, your plans, your dreams . . . don’t throw yourself away by becoming a picture painted by someone else. As Gordon MacKenzie said,
You have a masterpiece inside you . . .
One unlike any that has ever been created or ever will be.
And remember:
If you go to your grave without painting your masterpiece,
it will not get painted.
No one else can paint it.
Only you.
You’ve allowed too many people to spray graffiti on your canvas. It’s time to clean it off and sketch out your own picture.
Someone out there has been waiting for you to begin painting. They want to see who you are and hear what you have to say.
Don’t listen to the critics. [Who cares if they don’t like the colors you choose?] Be what you feel. Celebrate your uniqueness. Grab the brush and start creating!
Whatever you are, be a good one!
Deanna
Do It Anyway
Posted in Action, Choices, Self Improvement, tagged Anyway, Build, Deanna C. Stevens, Do Good, Fight, Frank, Give, Help, Honest, Keith M. Martin, LinkedIn, Love, Paradoxical Comments, Succeed, Think Big on September 25, 2009| 1 Comment »
A while back, I came across what I now know as the Paradoxical Commandments. They were written by Kent M. Keith in 1968 as part of a booklet for student leaders. Over the years, they have inspired me and I have shared them with others. Today, I would like to share them with you.
People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.
Think big anyway.
People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.
Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
Do the right thing, because it is the right thing to do — in any case, anyhow, anyway.
Whatever you are, be a good one!
Deanna
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