“There are no menial jobs, just menial attitudes.”
[William J. Bennett]
The other day Greg and I were shopping at a local grocery store. Specifically, we had stopped by to redeem rain checks for several items the store didn’t have in stock the last time we were there.
Yet again, the shelves were empty, so we went to the customer care counter to ask for another rain check. We waited as the service desk person phoned the stock person, who then (I assume) went looking for the items. Nearly ten minutes passed as we stood at the front of the store. Finally, the items were located and transported to the cashier area.
This was our second time to the store to purchase an item that had been advertised. Instead of apologies for having to issue a rain check the first visit, or appreciation for our taking the time to visit the store a second time, we were treated like annoying interruptions. Gee, thanks.
Nonetheless, Greg and I found ways to amuse ourselves during the wait and were in good spirits by the time we made our way to the cashier. The customer in front of us was just departing, and we congratulated ourselves on avoiding a long line!
As usual, Greg greeted the cashier by name and asked how she was doing. She grumbled some sort of reply (obviously, not comfortable with small talk) and without asking for our “Super Valuable Customer Fuel Perks Card” or if we had any coupons, started scanning our items. Greg stood by with a fistful of coupons and rain checks as I placed the grocery bags in the cart.
At the end of our order, the clerk stated the total due, which was less than $30. Greg asked if she wanted our “Super Valuable Customer Fuel Perks Card.” She sighed heavily, scanned it, punched some keys and announced the new total. He then said he had coupons and rain checks. Holy Moly! You would have thought we had just posed the most offensive and ludicrous question she had ever heard!
The clerk groaned, she huffed and puffed, she shook her head and angrily stated that Greg was supposed to tell her about rain checks BEFORE she rung the total and now everything (all 10 items) had to be re-rung. She smacked on her blinking lane light and motioned to the front end manager for assistance.
I looked over at Greg and said warmly, “Mr. Stevens, you are a very bad customer.” The cashier paused for a second, realizing her attitude had been exposed. Although her manner softened slightly, you could tell she was still very annoyed with us.
A few weeks ago Greg and I were checking out at a different store. This time, I was impressed by our clerk’s extremely cheerful demeanor and helpful attitude, even while dealing with the difficult customer in front of us. When we stepped up to the counter, I asked how late the clerk was working that evening. (By this time, it was 10 p.m.)
“I’m on the schedule until midnight,” he answered. “This is my second job. I work here at night to pay my car payment.”
He explained that he had been downsized from a good paying job several months earlier. Since then, he had been working two jobs, bringing home only a fraction of his former salary.
Although the cashier was dealing with unpleasant circumstances, he had an awesome attitude.
I was amazed how these two individuals, doing very similar jobs, created such wildly different experiences for their customers. It’s true that “attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference” [Winston Churchill].
Attitude is a choice. When you are in a bad mood or life has treated you unfairly, you can decide to provide great service in spite of your circumstances, or you can decide to treat people like very bad customers for having the misfortune of selecting your check-out lane. The choice is yours; choose wisely.
As Francesca Reigler said, “Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”
Whatever you are, be a good one!
Deanna
Read Full Post »